This young, beautiful South African lady, Lebogang Brenda Motsumi has
been living with the HIV virus for about three years after she was
infected by a popular singer.
She broke the internet when she revealed her status to the world.
Motsumi had fought her own battles within; she had wrestled with her
thoughts and have decided to come clean after putting the demons where
they belong. She is one hell of a fighter as she is not ready to let her
status define her.
Lebo, as she is fondly called, has her eyes fixed on the brighter
side of life as she is not ready to cave in to depression that often
comes with that status.
She is an HIV activist who has chaired many gatherings aimed at encouraging young people who are living with the virus.
Lebo got to know about her status in year 2009 after her ex-boyfriend
shared his status. She felt she could test positive to the virus but
refused to admit it could every happen to her.
She was healthy about this time and did not see the need to go for a test as she thought she was beyond the virus.
She acknowledged in an interview that a late Kwaito singer, Tebogo
‘Zombo’ Ndlovu infected her with the virus. The saddest part was that
she was never in love with him as she claimed to have been with him for
the fame. She was a naive seventeen-year-old who got more than what she
bargained for.
This beautiful young lady was diagnosed with the virus in 2009 even
though she did not accept her new status till 2011. She was pregnant
then and was faced with the decision of protecting the growing child in
her. She joined a youth support group which made her realise she was not
the only one living with the virus. Lebogang sees herself as the host
to the virus as she is not willing to let it take charge of her life.
Her daughter was born and protected from the virus. She has refused to
get limited by her status as she runs her own support organisation.
She uses her medications actively even though it is a challenge. The
beautiful mother of one does not see herself as the virus; rather, she
sees herself as a strong person. She believes the mind could be a great
cure for this virus.
She advised the youths to always use protection if they do not have the patience to wait till after marriage to have sex.
This is because you can never tell what your partner is doing behind
you. This advice is the same one that has been heard by youths many
times, yet it is considered to be the most effective way of being safe
when it comes to sexually transmitted diseases.
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