"He Suddenly Knows How to Make Me Orgasm After 3 Years"

Redditor throw7this7away's boyfriend recently came back from a weeklong trip with newfound sexual prowess—which is great for her, right? Except that she can't help but wonder how he picked up these new abilities.

"During sex, something different happened," she explained. "Usually, when he goes down on me, he is pretty sloppy and his tongue moves with no purpose. Generally, his tongue stays around my vagina, but never at all focused on my clitoris, but this time he hit it spot-on and it was the first time he made me orgasm while going down on me. This is very odd to me because during our 3.5 years, he has never made me orgasm while going down on me, and now the day he comes back from his trip, he suddenly knows exactly where to put and what to do with his tongue, with little to no direction."

In addition, she said that since his trip, he's been less eager to make plans and didn't show up one time when he said he'd visit her.Should she be suspicious of her S.O.'s behavior, or just grateful? Here's what Reddit thought:"Haven't you asked him after sex where he got that new thing from? If I were you, I'd just sit him down and address the issue of him being distant and avoiding you." —airaqua "It's possible he just picked up some techniques from his peer... I mean his bros. Some would discuss techniques among themselves." —sparkingspirit"He didn't go to some retreat thing, sleep with a girl once, and then became a sex master. You are reading too far into this. But it does sound like he is dodging you. But again, you are looking for things and therefore more likely to find them. Does he usually cancel a lot? Bottom line, tell him you need to talk. Communicate your worries and give him a chance to explain." —thegypsyqueen"I don't think it's far-fetched to believe that time away from you might have made him rethink his skills in bed. Maybe something did happen on the camping trip, but I wouldn't jump to conclusions just yet. The distant-acting thing, however, is very weird. Communication is key here. Talk to him. Ask him if there's any reason why he's been so flaky with you lately." —OmegaSparkIf your partner's sexual techniques suddenly changed, would you wonder how they did their, uh, research? Or is she being overly suspicious?


Source: Glamoursmitten