That's kinda fucked up! There are but a few things you can
do after you might have asked her and she is not interested.
First and foremost, display yourself the best way you can be; not necessarily
the way you look. If there is a natural situation where both of you are in
proximity to each other, maybe the same class, work together, etcetera you can
use this opportunity to know her interests and display your wit, style,
"freshness" and kindness or your "nigga-like" attitude;
different girls with different interests. That doesn't mean you should change
who you are for another. Unless the real you is horrible, in that case -
change! But at least this way you get to know whether you and her have any sort
of spark at all.
If she does accept you as a friend. Decision time for you. You have to find out
if you can keep up a relationship to her as "just" a friend. It all
depends if you can stand the idea that you will never have a love relationship
with her. If you cannot, perhaps it hurts so much, then the answer us clear;
get the fuck out of her life!
Finally, if she just isn't into you(including as a friend). First, accept what
she told you. Second, get over it! Move on and up. You cannot force
love. You cannot make someone love you by 'trying to change' her point of view.
Console yourself with stuff you like to do, be good to yourself and wait for
time to heal. Time can heal this, if you let it. Belie that!!
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